When you feel like you're burning...
THE single most life-changing piece of advice
Sister, I know your heart.
I hear it calling you, asking you to listen, to choose that little voice, filled with love and hope.
I see you floating in between.
The space of living life like yo were told should and breaking free. Living YOUR life. As you deeply choose.
And I know like I KNOW that some days you don't even remember what it feels like or looks like to live your OWN life.
You've done everything you're supposed to do
You've done everything you're supposed to do, but it's not enough.
princess v Queen
Ready for it??
I know some of you are like yes yes yes please I’m so ready for a change. I am at that somethings got to give point. And you can feeeeel that.
Something has to give. Or you’ll go back to....
Functioning in the dysfunction.
Saying everything’s great when it’s not, really.
Wishing and hoping for better- better relationships, better income, better activities. Just a better way of living.
Because you know somethings off, but you just can pinpoint it.
Nothing feels right. You’re too big for you own skin, but how do you expand?
Navigating the growing pains
What I want to say is this: It's one thing to be a Princess, and another entirely to be Queen.
It's about commanding vs demanding. Now, somewhere along the line, I stopped my "princessy" behavior, because I was told it was wrong so many times that I eventually began to think that I just really didn't know what was best for me since it was held as a negative behavior.
It's taken me a long time to realize that that is not wrong. Not at all. There's not a lot more right than knowing exactly what you want.
YOU CANNOT ‘LOVE AND LIGHT’ YOUR WAY INTO FEELING WORTHY
At some point, you woke up. You realized you're meant for more. The "hustle" isn't where you're meant to be, you're meant to be influencing, leading, being an example of liberation.⠀
You woke up. Thank God.⠀
But.... now what?⠀
What do you do? Where do you go?⠀
You kind of lose your whole identity when you realize there's something more. And that can be scary. I get it. Who are you without the hustle?⠀
thought if I stayed #highvibe it would just make me feel better, feel like enough.
But I couldn’t #loveandlight my way to worthiness.
What do I mean? It’s like this:
You’ve got great ideas but just can’t execute.
You work towards your goals, you #hustlebut you never quite get there.
You can’t even tap into the big vision to determine the first right step.